PERFECT AS IS...

It happens to all of us.  We judge others, they judge us, and then we pick ourselves apart, too.  Sure there is room for self-improvement.  Sure we will make mistakes.  Others will have their opinions of our actions, choices and so forth.  Who cares?  Well, of course we care.  Some of us care more that others and some of us care at times, but should we?

Hell NO!  That's what I say now!  Today, that is... tomorrow, I may forget temporarily but for the most part, I do believe:

Just this morning I was reading the news feed on FB and there it was... the "I am so not worthy because my last relationship failed".  I see this type of post over and over and I truly can empathize as I have had those same thoughts in the past.  Overcoming is another story; however.

Depending on the life situation, generally, failed relationships; I have found personal peace in finding myself.  The moment those clouds start to hover over me, or the moment I actually realize that the clouds are hovering (more realistic) I take a moment.  I stop.  I stop thinking about whatever it is, whomever it is and all the garbage we have a tendency to create in our own minds and redirect.  I redirect my thoughts to something that changes my energy.  The energy shift is most important and empowering thing you can do for yourself.  At least, that is how I choose to believe and it works.

When your energy is low it will attract more low.  When your vibration is high, the energy you attract is of a higher good.   It has taken me plenty of practice to learn to shift the energy but the reality of it is simply changing the thought which, quite honestly, is very basic and simple.  Maybe those posts on FB are really an attempt to glean support and empathy, or really to get help in shifting the energy or thought process.  At least, this is my guess based on the people in my network that make such posts.  They are amazing people that have had something defeating happen to them, just like I have.

Each and everyone of us come completely equipped to run our lives in a successful way.  We each have within us all we need to survive this crazy world we live in.  We each have the ability to change our directions and/or our paths.  We are cognitive and creative beings that are fallible and we simply lose touch with our authenticity and look outside of ourselves for answers.   Although collaboration is beneficial and often times helps us, it's the internal that is truest.  We are so ever complicated and tapping within eludes us much of the time.

Negative self-talk is one of the most harmful things we can do to ourselves.  What is wrong with being kind to yourself?  What is wrong with tapping into the innate and creating the most amazing dreamlike life for yourself?  What is wrong with being who you are today, as is, no pretending, let the world see you shine from the inside?  What is wrong with self-love and appreciation?  It is when we are in our divine that we can open up authentically and be the person we need to be which brings about all that we ever wanted, needed or desired.  All is perfect from the point of love; self-love.  And each one of us today have the ability to look within and love us for who we are, presently, today and accept that we are at our best when we are authentic.

From the authentic we can tap into what we need to do to move forward with our lives.

Sometimes, I have to remind myself:

No doubt I had my share of relationship drama and defeats.  Who hasn't?

I will never forget the day I had to be peeled off my sheets after being face down in a fit of tears and the people that held me up, and talked be through the pain until I could feel the warm sun glow on my face and laugh out loud, and eventually learning how to dance  in the rain.  I cherish the moments that I was completely lost but learned to embrace and celebrate the life I created as I climbed out of the deepest of depressions to find a world out there that accepts me as I am, far from perfect but perfectly happy.  And to those that don't like it.... all I have to say, is that is none of my concern!

EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US IS PERFECT AS IS and deserving of living a dream filled life!

To those that are hurting today, there are many more tomorrows under a rainbow of self-love waiting for you.  Get UP!  Your life is waiting for you....

As for everyone else; tell them to:  Mind your own biscuits and life will be gravy!  I love that Kasey Musgraves song called Biscuits!